On my EPOX 8K3A+ I removed the middle RAM retention tab as I also had the collision issue with the chip on the back of the board. No big deal though as the RAM is snug and the computer doesn't get thrown across the room too often so it's secure enough for me. I can always re-install the tab if I want someday, but I don't see any reason I would ever use the motherboard for anything other than my Strange God so that was my solution.
BTW - LOVING the card, thank you so much Anthony for making my dream come true!